Holiday List
Here are a few items that I feel good recommending as holiday gifts!
Some of these items are affiliate links which means that if you use my link or code, I benefit, too! Please note, I am only recommending items and/or creators that I actually like and support (and actually lots of these aren’t affiliate links)
Toys
Bunnyshoppe is a Latina-owned sex toy company where you get 15% off using code YAELTHESEXGEEK. Betty’s Toy Box has a great selection of toys, too! You can also use the code Yaelthesexgeek for 10% off!
Card Games
Hedonism & Debauchery offers a fun way for couples or groups to sexplore while always centering consent.
If you’re looking to exercise your sexual creativity, try the whatcha gonna do card game! Each card has three items listed and you come up with an idea of what you could do with them.
Relationship Tune-Up Cards By Dr. Lexx, the Sex Doc. I don’t have these yet but I’ve seen her post examples from the deck online and they look great!
Books & Subscriptions
An Introguide to a Sex Positive You: Lessons, Tales, and Tips by me! | Via Amazon or Bookshop
Guía Introductoria a una Sexualidad Positiva by me! | Via Amazon or Bookshop
Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good | Via Amazon or Bookshop
The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love | Via Amazon or Bookshop
Sex Positive Talks to Have With Kids: A guide to raising sexually healthy, informed, empowered young people
| Via Amazon or Bookshop
Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships | Via Amazon or Bookshop
Girl Sex 101 (Black and White) | Via Amazon or Bookshop
Feminist Queer Adult Cinema: Crash Pad Series, PinkLabel.TV, Pink & White Productions
Jewelry & Art
Abstract Female Body Earrings Real Flower Earrings Real Flower
Kast-a-kitty Vagina Molding Lifecasting Kit
Beautiful candles of a variety of body shapes by Jodyann Morgan, a plus size, queer, a Black woman. Check out
Add clito.clito earrings
For Sex Educators
Clito.clito vulva
Contesi vulva
Just for Fun
Rainbow paper
For the Body
Chub rub protection: I’ve spent my life wearing shorts under skirts and/or adding deodorant between my thighs to protect against what I lovingly call chub rub (aka the terrible chafing that happens when thighs, or other parts of the body, rub together). Carpe has come out with a cream called thigh to help win the chafing battle and this link gets you 10% off! They also have a host of other products like groin powder and sweat-reducing hand & foot lotions.
