People respond with excitement and surprise when they learn what I do. Often, I’m the first sex professional they’ve met. This can be especially true in communities of color and immigrant populations. Though sex education/coaching is a growing field, finding culturally relevant resources can still be a challenge, especially if you don’t know where to look.

Lube is probably one of the most underrated ways to improve sex. If you are ready to give it the respect it deserves, keep reading this guide to learn why you should use it, what to use when/where, and what to keep in mind while exploring!