Lube is probably one of the most underrated ways to improve sex. If you are ready to give it the respect it deserves, keep reading this guide to learn why you should use it, what to use when/where, and what to keep in mind while exploring!

Edging is a masturbation technique for intentionally stopping, or reducing, stimulation right before reaching the point of no return, with the goal of delaying orgasm. If you are a fan of teasing or of experiencing the sensation of desperately wanting something and it being tantalizingly just beyond reach, edging might be for you. And you'll probably mind blown when you reach orgasm.

Edging, also known as peaking or surfing (and sometimes orgasm control), can be practiced solo and/or with a partner. It requires an awareness of your signs of arousal, or that of a partner, to perform successfully and can promote mindfulness and body awareness. The use of this technique can truly add spice to your sex life. Please note that edging is different from “edge play,” which is a BDSM term for testing one’s limits and boundaries.

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Whether you experience trouble orgasming, never had a partnered orgasm, or never orgasmed at all, this article is meant to help you find routes to your pleasure! You may be surprised, but most of what you’ll want to do rests in self-reflection and general self-work before it gets physical. That’s because what often keeps us from pleasure is what’s between our ears rather than what’s between our legs.

As women, we've always been made to look at sex from the other perspective instead of our own. Now it's time to recognize and reclaim our perspective.